Happiest moment to remember

The happiest moment would always be remember in their entire life. Make this memorable day the best of all with a gift for your loved one.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Inspiring Thoughts

Anger is a condition in which
the tongue works faster than the mind.
You can't change the past,
but you can ruin the present
by worrying over the future.

The darkest moment of the night is just before dawn.

Keep your eyes wide open before marriage,
half shut afterwards.

All people smile in the same language.

A hug is a great gift... one size fits all.
It can be given for any occasion
and it's easy to exchange.

Everyone needs to be loved...
especially when they do not deserve it.

The real measure of a man's wealth
is what he has invested in eternity.
Love...and you shall be loved.

Everyone has beauty
but not everyone sees it.

It's important for parents to live
the same things they teach.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow,
you have no today to be thankful for.

Marriage is like a game of compromise.
When either one of the players stops compromising,
the game is about to end.

The choice you make today
will usually affect tomorrow.

Take time to laugh, for it is
the music of the soul.

If anyone speaks badly of you,
live so none will believe it.

Patience is the ability to idle your motor
when you feel like stripping your gears.

Love is strengthened by working
through conflicts together.

The best thing parents can do
for their children is to love each other.

Harsh words break no bones
but they do break hearts.

To get out of a difficulty,
one usually must go through it.

We take for granted the things
that we should be giving thanks for.

Love is the only thing that can be
divided without being diminished.

Happiness is enhanced by others
but does not depend upon others.

For every minute you are angry with someone,
you lose 60 seconds of happiness
that you can never get back.

Do what you can, for who you can,
with what you have, and where you are.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Unchained melody



Oh, my love, my darling
I've hungered for your touch
A long, lonely time
And time goes by so slowly
And time can do so much
Are you still mine?
I need your love, I need your love
God speed your love to me

Lonely rivers flow
To the sea, to the sea
To the open arms of the sea
Lonely rivers sigh
"Wait for me, wait for me"
I'll be coming home; wait for me

Oh, my love, my darling
I've hungered, hungered for your touch
A long, lonely time
And time goes by so slowly
And time can do so much
Are you still mine?
I need your love, I need your love
God speed your love to me


The young lyricist who wrote those words waited a long time ? 19 years ? to hear it performed in public, but when the song finally hit the charts in 1955, it went straight to the top and has been there on and off for almost 50 years.

source : http://www.biwa.ne.jp/~presley/elnews-UnchainedMelody.htm

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Positive Thinking

We are born with two eyes in front,
because we must not always look behind,
but see what lies ahead beyond ourselves!

We are born to have two ears.
one left, one right,
so we can hear both sides,
collect both the compliments and criticisms,
to see which are right.

We are born with a brain concealed in a skull,
then no matter how poor we are,
we are still rich,
for no one can steal
what our brain contains,
packing in more jewels and rings
than you can think.

We are born with two eyes, two ears,
but one mouth....
for the mouth is a sharp weapon,
it can hurt, flirt, and kill.

We are born to...
Carry A Heart that Never Hates!
Carry a Smile that Never Fades!
Carry a Touch that never Hurts!
Carry a Friendship that Never Fails!

This is about to think positive.Always take a positive view of things and always move forward keeping in your heart a positive attitude towards life and actions. May Allah will help us to succeed in our life!.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Happiness in Marriage

In order to be happy in a relationship, we have to experience happiness as an individual first then family ,community and so on.Many Muslim husbands and wives treat each other like adversaries rather than partners.Many of them treat their spouses in ways that they would never treat others. With others, they try to be polite, kind, and patient. With their spouses, they often do not show these courtesies.The husband feels that he is the boss, and whatever he says goes.

Some husbands and wives, believe it or not, complain to others about their mate's physical appearance. This is a recipe for disaster. Information about your intimate relations should be kept between you and your spouse.Sometimes after a bad day at the office, husbands usually come home angry and on edge. The wife has probably also had a hard day with the children and the housework. If they are short-tempered with each other , they will automatically thinking that their spouse no longer loves them.

Do not be a dictators
The husband as the head of the household are not supposed to be dictators. We are taught to treat our wives well. Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam was reported have said:
'The most perfect Muslim in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behavior; and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives'.


Be Partners in the Decision Making Process.
There will be much more harmony in the family when decisions are not imposed and everyone feels that they had some part in making them.

Never be Emotionally
Be very careful what you say when you are upset. Sometimes you will say things that you would never say when you were not angry. If you are angry, wait until you calm down before continuing the conversation.Never be emotionally, mentally, or physically abusive to your spouse. Rasul Allah -Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam never mistreated his wives. He is reported to have said:
'How could they beat their women in daytime as slaves and then sleep with them in the night'


Work Together in the House
It would be great if the husband and wife could work together.Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam is known to have helped his wives in the house. And if He was not above doing housework, modern Muslim husbands shouldn't feel that they are.

Communication is Important
Communication:This is the big word in counseling. And it should be. Husbands and wives need to talk to each other. It is better to deal with problems early and honestly than to let them pile up until an explosion occurs.

Forget the past
Accept the fact that you cannot change the past. The past is only relevant for the lessons you can learn. Do not suffer over and over needlessly for mistakes you made or actions or opportunities you would have, should have, or could have taken. Learn from your mistakes and then, basically, forget about them. Only the lessons remain relevant.

Live Simply
Some wives never show their husband that they are satisfied with anything he does or buys for them in order to trick him into doing and buying more. They make him feel like a failure if he does not give them the lifestyle that their friends and families enjoy. Don't be jealous of those who seem to be living a more luxurious life than your family. Look at other people who have less than you, not those who have more.

Admit Your Mistakes
If your mate doesn't want to be with you all the time, it doesn't mean he or she doesn't love you. People need to be alone for various reasons. Sometimes they want to read, to think about their problems, or just to relax. Don't make them feel that they are committing a sin.When you make a mistake, admit it. When your mate makes a mistake, excuse him or her easily. If possible, never go to sleep angry with each other.

Have Meals Together
Try to eat together as a family when possible. Show the cook and the dishwasher, whether it is the husband or the wife, appreciation for his or her efforts. Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam did not complain about food that was put before him

The principles such as humility, sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and hard work are good for our marriage These principles could help our marriage to improve. The essence of them all can be summed up in one sentence: Always treat your spouse the way you would like to be treated. If you follow this rule, your marriage will have a much greater chance for success. If you discard this rule, failure is just around the corner.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Ten Tips on How To Be A Successful Husband.

'All Praise is to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam and upon all his Family and Companions'.

We praise Allah and seek His help and forgiveness. We seek refuge with Allah from the evil of our own souls and from our evil deeds. Whomever Allah guides will never be led astray, and whomever Allah leaves astray, no-one can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but Allah Alone, with no partners or associates, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His Slave and Messenger.

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam - used when he would see something inappropriate from his wivesn Radiallahu Anhhun . It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - Radiallahu Anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam - would race his wife Aisha - Radiallahu Anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger - Salallahu Alaihi Wassalam: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best!

The miswak
The miswak is a teeth cleaning twig, made from a twig of the Salvadora persica tree, also known as the arak tree or the peelu tree and features in Islamic hygienical juriprudence.
Although not mentioned in the Quran, use of the miswak is frequently advocated in the hadith(the traditions relating to the life of Muhammad). Situations where the miswak is recommended to be used include, before religious practice, before entering one's house, before and after going on a journey, on Fridays, before sleeping and after waking up, when experiencing hunger or thirst and before entering any good gathering.
In addition to strengthening the gums, preventing tooth decay and eliminating toothaches, the miswak is also said to halt further increase in decay that has already set in. Furthermore, it is claimed to create a fragrance in the mouth, eliminate bad breath, improve the sense of taste and cause the teeth to glow and shine.
Supposed benefits not related to the teeth and gums include sharpening memory, curing headaches, creating a glow on the face of the one who continually uses it, strengthening the eyesight, assisting in digestion and clearing the voice. None of these claims, however, have been researched scientifically.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Do you know what is family?

Do you really understand what is behind the word family?

It gives us a shock when we know the answer.

FAMILY
Father, And, Mother, I, Love, You.


WHY does a man want to have a WIFE?
Because:

W---Washing
I----Ironing
F----Food
E----Entertainment

WHY does a woman want to have a HUSBAND? Because:
H---Housing
U---Understanding
S---Sharing
B---Buying
A---and
N---Never
D---Demanding

Do you know that a simple "HELLO" can be a sweet one?
Especially from our loved ones. The word HELLO means:

H---How are you?
E---Everything all right?
L---Like to hear from you
L---Love to see you soon!
O---Obviously, I miss you

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Mechanic Versus Surgeon

A mechanic was removing the cylinder heads
from the motor of a car when he spotted the
famous heart surgeon in his shop, who was
standing off to the side, waiting for the service
manager to come to take a look at his car.
The mechanic shouted across the garage,
"Hello Doctor!!. Please come over here for
a minute." The famous surgeon, a bit surprised,
walked over to the mechanic. The mechanic
straightened up, wiped his hands on a rag and
asked argumentatively, "So doctor, look at this...
I also open hearts, take valves out, grind 'em,
put in new parts, and when I finish this will work
as a new one. So how come you get the big
money, when you and me is doing basically the
same work?". The doctor leaned over and
whispered to the mechanic....

Try operating while the engine is running.....